Last week I went in to the county courthouse to drop off the last of my divorce papers. In 5-6 days I call in, they say "your divorce decree is here", I pick it up and am free. Or at least that's what was supposed to happen.
Instead I got there and the little Asian lady starts shaking her head slightly. I think, "please let it just be Parkinsons' Disease, please oh please".
No dice.
Turns out, Adam disagreed with the divorce documents. WHAT?! Oh wait, I remember that he sent me something. His 1987 pink Acura had died back in June so he got a new car. So instead of writing in a different document saying, by the way, I got a new car and it's mine, he disagreed with the divorce.
Now we have to go to mediation. Shoot me. Of course I try my best to explain that he's a moron and only disagreed that the doesn't have the car anymore, he wanted to notify the court of the new one, and he's in Missouri. She was very unsympathetic.
So now I think we're going to have to do some sort of phone mediation (which I'm making him pay for if there are any costs involved) which will go something like this:
A: "I got a new Corolla in June. It's mine. She can't have it."
Me: "I understand I can't have it. I don't want it. I will not try to take it in or after the divorce is final."
Mediator: "Great. Sign this document and mail it in."
I could have been legally single this Friday! Who knows how long this will take now. I guess I'm not going anywhere soon.
9 comments:
wow. seriously? that is NUTS. bleah. *hugs to you!*
you're in my prayers all the time.
No way!!! I can't believe that!!
I'm so sorry Becka! I wish there was something I could do to help... (TP the Asian ladies car? No, its not her fault...)
I love ya babe! Stay strong! Hope to see you soon!
yeah, that should be "lady's" not "ladies"... :)
I am sorry that it has to drag on. I hope the mediator things works out and that it does not drag on as well.
That totally stinks! Sorry about that, what a pain. Maybe you should get the car because he's being such a pain (just kidding).
Ugh! How frustrating. Soon enough though! Hopefully everything goes smoothly from here on out!
I'm sorry you have to go through this. I can't believe he wouldn't just specify. Hopefully this won't drag out too long!
That sucks! (can't think of a better word to say it).
Oh Maaaaaannnnnnnnn Becka~ I am sooooo sorry! I wish I were there to give you a HUMUNGO (pronounced hew mon go) lol* hug. This totally blows chunks! I could give him an imaginary swift kick if you would like! *wink* I need to get some aggression out anyway.
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